Listening to a client this week share his frustrations on the state of leadership in his organization brought alarm to me on how I was going to help. By the time I got off the phone call my head was spinning with both concern and possibility. Sure this company had unaware senior leaders but at least they were now willing to face the music. The conversation went something like this:
“They are so busy all the time that it is difficult to pin them down.”
“ They really want to keep their good talent from constantly leaving.”
“I know they have to make some changes and that includes developing their employees. They just never focused on that aspect of their firm.”
Many organizations have dealt with senior leaders who pushed off the care and nurturing of their employees. They think that as long as they have a good revenue stream and customers’ needs are met fairly well, there is no need to focus on internal talent. Guess what? Employees come first! Without developing a culture where each person leads from wherever they are, there will end up being a drop in customer satisfaction.
But how can senior leaders develop and empower their teams into becoming impactful leaders?
Five leadership qualities that will prevent a stunted leadership:
1. BE TRUSTWORTHY
When I spoke with my client the first thing we talked about was the need for trust between the senior leaders and the rest of the firm. An organization lacking trust is lacking direction. A great place to build trustworthiness is by:
- Following through on what you say you will do
- Taking an interest in each team member
- Being honest in a respectful way
- Making yourself approachable
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2. KEEP OPEN EVEN IF YOU THINK YOU ARE RIGHT
By the time we become senior leaders we have probably seen it all and have tons of knowledge and experiences. But that doesn’t mean we can’t learn from other leaders. As long as leaders are willing to consider new perspectives they will continue to grow and evolve. Always thinking we are right is a sabotaging mantra. Try to allow your curiosity to drive conversations.
3. LISTEN FOR IMPORTANT INSIGHTS
One area that senior leaders can be tripped up on easily is their ineffective listening abilities. They are often eager to respond and pounce before hearing others explain their ideas and suggestions. Some tricks to active listening are:
- Force yourself not to interrupt (and it might take a great deal of reminding)
- Try to hear what the other leader is saying and if it could have merit
- Don’t jump to conclusions and assume you know what is being shared
- Use your two eyes and two ears to understand more deeply
4. COACH WITH CLARITY AND CARE
Commit to becoming the best coach ever by learning recognized coaching skills. It may take time but it is well worth it to help another leader reach their potential. Can you think of a leader in your life that coached you and really believed in you? Think of that leader and the impact they had on your career. Now decide if that is the kind of leader you want to be known as.
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5. BUILD A CULTURE OF RELATIONSHIPS
To continue to grow our leadership and not become stunted, we need to continually build vibrant and meaningful relationships. Not only do we need to delve more deeply into our team members but we also must help make connections for others. By building networks for the leaders throughout our organizations we are also cultivating our own leadership.
What qualities have prevented your leadership from becoming stunted?
This is a great list of ways that leaders can encourage growth in their team members. It does require awareness on the part of the leader in order to recognize how growth is being stunted to begin with. That is why I like how you start your list with “trustworthiness.” If the team feels they can trust their leader, they’ll feel comfortable and more willing to open up about what they feel is missing. Great article and I’ll share with others…
You bring up an excellent point about the critical need to build high levels of trust in order to even be open to growing our leadership. There are so many ways to cultivate trust but I have found that a great action to take is just to get to know what your colleagues enjoy doing outside of the workplace. That can give us insight into finding commonality as well as developing a more complete persona of our co-workers.
Thanks for your additions LaRae!
My favorite is your last point – to build a culture of relationships. When we think of ourselves as always in silos and responsible solely for our own domain we undermine our leadership and overall organizational success. Without trust, relationships are impossible because we’re always second guessing motivation.
Thanks for sharing your leadership development expertise! Will share!
Alli
Relationships are the foundation of leadership and you are so right that they cannot be forged without deep trust. Leaders who are able to step outside of their space and give credit to team members will be leaders who keep growing.Showing appreciation for contributions made by others goes a far way.
Thanks Alli for sharing your insights and perspectives with us!
Very good points Terri. Leading and building the workforce is critical to creating a successful wave flowing in a direction that flows together. Your points in this post are a great roadmap to make it happen effectively.
I love your metaphor of a “wave flowing in a direction together”! That’s the way a high performing team should go with everyone leading from wherever they are. Thanks so much Anthony for stopping by and adding your great comments!