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No leader can make it on their own. We may sometimes think it is best to drive our dreams in a solo airplane, but that will get us just so far. When we hit brick walls and can’t seem to push ourselves forward, we often need to turn to the people we work or collaborate with to give us a little kick or help. So if each of us needs assistance and encouragement at different points, why are we sometimes reluctant to offer it to others? What are we afraid of or why aren’t we extending a helping hand?

Leaders can feel threatened by helping someone else get to the next level. That may sound crazy but I have heard this over and over again in so many of my leadership workshops. People may not express it so definitively, but that is exactly what concerns them. What if the person we help moves up the ladder faster or makes more progress than we do?

Let’s flip that mindset for this one: How can we help both others as well as ourselves cultivate more impactful leadership?

The answer lies in becoming a leadership connector. When we put aside our fears (which are probably limiting us) and we open up our minds to grow and develop others, we can see the value of connections. Through connections leaders learn new skills and knowledge as well as build a valuable network.

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Four ways to become a leadership connector:

1. ACKNOWLEDGE THE VALUE IN HELPING OTHERS CONNECT

To become a leadership connector, look at how people throughout your career have helped you grow through connecting you with others. Did a boss pair you with someone on your team that had different skills from yours? Did you get introduced to a person from a different department that enabled you to make a career move? When we see how important connections played in our leadership journey, we want to do the same for others.

2. DEVELOP AN APPROACHABLE LEADERSHIP STYLE

Are you a leader that your team members see as approachable? Here are a few ways to grow your approachability factor:

  • When colleagues ask you for help, make them feel comfortable by spending time with them
  • Listen with deep understanding to what is being shared
  • Smile and become a fan
  • Add open-mindedness to your leadership qualities

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3. ADD MENTORING TO YOUR LIST OF ESSENTIAL SKILLS

Many of us have had and still have magical mentors who helped pave the way for us in our careers. What made them so important to our success? They were able to create a mentoring partnership that not only held us accountable but also were able to see possibilities that we couldn’t even imagine. Many of our mentors introduced us to new people and experiences. Become a mentor and learn how to help others propel forward.

4. PROMOTE A CULTURE OF CONNECTIONS

Leaders also need to encourage team members, collaborators and colleagues to create a workplace of leadership connectors. If every person could see that by helping promote and grow others that they are also developing themselves, then becoming connectors will be the norm. It will evolve into leaders helping leaders without fear.

[Tweet “To develop future leaders create a culture of leaders helping leaders.”]

How have you become a leadership connector? What strategies have promoted a culture of helping others make connections?

 

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