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I was raised in a family that valued loyalty above all else. Standing by each of my family members to show the world around us that we were first for each other, was our manta. Even when one of us was a little bit too outspoken or someone inadvertently backed our car into a friend’s car parked opposite our driveway, my parents and siblings took the fall together.

It is not surprising that I place loyalty as one of my critical values to live by, both in my personal and professional life. I have imparted that value on my own family, who are probably the most loyal people you will ever meet. I bring loyalty to my friendships, making sure to “have each one’s back.” I value being a loyal colleague and collaborator, going to bat for people in my work world.

Why is loyalty so important?

What does loyalty look like?

Why should loyalty matter to leaders?

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When leaders value loyalty they are also value trustworthiness. Just as my family handed down to me the importance of being loyal, leaders can model loyalty with their teams and co-workers. When loyalty permeates the workplace, there is a sense of belonging and a commitment to collaboration. With loyal team members, there is higher performance because everyone feels accountable and responsible for the end result. Each person wants to do their best and contribute because each individual feels they matter.

These are four ways to bring loyalty to your work world:

1. BE TRUSTWORTHY

The first step to lead with loyalty is to be someone who people trust. You will be trusted if you share your vulnerabilities as well as follow through on doing what you say you will do. Being trustworthy means keeping confidences yet sharing information that team members need to be successful in their jobs. It takes time to build trust and leaders need to be patient with this.

 2. BE A SUPPORTER

Being loyal means giving credit to others and helping them move along their ideas and suggestions. It involves going out on a limb to promote someone’s project that might be controversial. If a team member or a colleague asks for some help because you have a certain expertise, support them by extending yourself.

 3. BE A GUIDE

When I work with clients, I spend a great deal of time listening to understand their true concerns and challenges. Once I grasp what is needed, I try to discover the solutions through asking empowering questions. I may ask:

“What do you hope will change after the leadership training workshops?”

“What are the biggest concerns you want me to address to be most helpful?”

“What does success look like to you?”

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 4. BE GENEROUS

Generosity is key to loyalty. Clearing our desks off and setting time aside for the people we connect with each day helps form meaningful relationships. We are generous leaders when we:

  • Tell someone what a great job they did with their contribution to the project
  • Celebrate a team birthday or milestone
  • Offer our insights to a colleague that they may not have considered
  • Bring them lunch or coffee
  • Ask them how their family is doing
  • Give them time off for putting in extra time

How do you lead with loyalty? What ways do you show your loyalty?

 

COMING APRIL 20TH- “ENERGIZE YOUR LEADERSHIP”

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